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Real Deal or Faux Beau: Should You Keep Seeing Him?

Real Deal or Faux Beau

How do you know if he’s the real deal or just a place holder?

You’ve begun to go out with a man you like. How do you decide if you should continue seeing him, or if you should release him because he’s not The One? Sometimes boredom or loneliness keeps us seeing someone we know isn’t right for us. After all, it’s better than sitting home alone! But that isn’t fair to either of you.

Real Deal or Faux Beau: Should You Keep Seeing Him? focuses on second dates and beyond. During the dating process both parties are assessing if you want to keep seeing each other. This book helps you determine what questions you need to ask yourself.

$9.95 eBook — download now (230 pages second edition 2012)

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Sample chapters (click here for full Table of Contents)

  • Deciding to see him again or not
  • What’s your date’s Delight/Disappointment Scale score?
  • Broaching tough conversations
  • “I want to respect me in the morning”
  • Does he invite you to his place?
  • Are you stingy in dating?
  • When his hand is on your knee too soon
  • Easy way to ask hard questions
  • Rose-colored glasses obscure red flags
  • If his stories don’t add up, subtract yourself

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After her 20-year marriage dissolved, the Dating Goddess dated 91 men in 3.5 years. She shares her lessons, stories and advice for midlife women reentering the dating scene.

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