They’d been dating regularly for 4 months, even taking a 4-day vacation together. My gal pal kept telling me what a nice guy he was — very thoughtful bringing her little presents every time he saw her. They became intimate early on. She liked him and enjoyed his company, but wasn’t smitten by him.
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Latest interview
Listen to the interview of DG with Dawn Wright-de Brantes on the Dash Radio.
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Is he up to something?
That phrase can have two interpretations — one bad and one good. “He’s up to something” can mean something bad, like “He’s up to no good.”
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Another interview
Listen to DG being interviewed by Dave Gordon on the Eargasm radio show.
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DG named to 10 Best Midlife Dating Experts list
Along with Dr. Ruth!

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Two new interviews
Recently, I’ve been interviewed by two media sources.
* Listen to a recent interview of me by RelationshipAdviceCafe.com (right-click to download to your computer).* Also on Money For Lunch. Forward to the 16:00 mark. It goes for about 15 minutes.
I’ve got several more lined up in the next few weeks and will post the times/dates and/or the recordings.
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ISO someone equally decrepit
When I read some midlife men’s dating profiles I get tired. Not from reading, but from their exhaustive list of extreme activities — rock climbing, remote backpacking, BASE jumping, snow camping, cliff flying. While I appreciate their exuberance for adrenaline, I grow weary just reading their exploits.
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Does he have the capacity for you?
I mean “capacity” in several ways.
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Thank goodness for friends
I heard a sharp rap through the phone. “What was that?” I asked my friend. He’d just inquired about my love life and I told him of the current potential suitor who was very attentive, but lives thousands of miles away — and who I’d not yet met.
“That” he said, “was me slapping you.”
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Join me tonight on KGO
I’ll be spending the hour with KGO’s Maureen Langan at 11:00 p.m. PST. Come join in the conversation!
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The Lennay affect
By now, anyone with a news feed knows of the the Manti Te’o/Lennay Kekua hoax, or what is known in the vernacular as catfishing. It is when one is duped in a romantic context, by someone purporting to be someone they are not. Scammers do it all the time, but usually they tip their hand within days or weeks when they ask for money. Catfishers have other, not always clear, motives.
Are they sociopaths? To some degree, as they stretch out what began as a prank or joke. But, as in Te’o’s case, the prank continues and the victim’s emotions are involved. For the more naive or lonely, it doesn’t seem implausible to have strong affection for someone they’ve never met.
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