Becoming smitten with the fantasy
I've been surprised when men become smitten with me without yet meeting me. Perhaps we've had some interesting emails and phone calls, and they begin professing their love -- or…
Shopping for men
Dating life can be brutal. You make an effort to look nice (I call it getting "dated up") to meet someone new, then he either doesn't contact you afterwards, tells…
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Chemistry, or does he make my toes curl?
Chemistry is often listed as what one wants in a relationship. However no one can seem to describe what that is. They will just "know it when they feel it."…
Dating is like Baskin-Robbins
I compare my philosophy of dating to visiting Baskin-Robbins where I ordered vanilla for 20 years (maybe it was Rocky Road at the end!). While I enjoyed vanilla, I want…
You’ve got to kiss a lot of …. princes!
Most of the women over 40 I talk to have become frustrated about dating because they seem to think many men are cads, players, jerks — in other words frogs!…