Does the guy you’re dating know what turns you on? Or does he make assumptions based on what turns him on?
I said, “It’s a guy video.”
“What do you mean?”
“Most of the women I know aren’t turned on by naked women.”
“What turns them on?”
“Naked MEN! Good looking ones!”
Now wouldn’t you think a 55-year-old man would know this, considering he was married for 10 years and has had many subsequent girlfriends in the last 20 years? Or did he go with women who were turned on by naked women? Or these past gals didn’t tell him this didn’t do it for them?
I think the lesson here is to not be afraid to tell your guy what gets you going — and what doesn’t. The latter needs to be delivered gently, not angrily or condescendingly. But guy pals tell us over and over — men need clear instructions. They don’t notice hints well. So let him know! You will both be much happier.
(I know you’re thinking, “Does this explain why he’s an ex-beau?”)
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