Talking to a single friend about her dating life, she said, “I’m really not ready, but I do have a profile posted.”
“Why do you have a profile posted if you’re not interested in actually dating right now?”
“It puts me in the mood of getting ready.”
“That’s wise. It opens you up to the possibility of dating, which carries over into real life. You send off more energy that you’re available for romance and men pick that up. I’ve noticed more men flirt with me since I’ve been dating. I think it’s my attitude.”
Have you been getting ready to get ready to date? If so, why not take the plunge and post your profile on a site or two. If you get any nibbles and aren’t quite ready, you can always politely decline. But it will also help you shift into ready mode more quickly. And who knows who’ll pick up on those vibes and ask you out.
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