Why listening is so seductive
The man I started seeing a few weeks ago told me about a woman in a weekly group activity he attends who has become enamored with him and it makes…
Understanding the stage your guy is in
Review of Keys to the Kingdom by Alison Armstrong Ms. Armstrong began her study of what makes men tick in 1991 and her staff gives "Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women®" workshops…
The flirt-talk continuum
I've noticed that flirt-talk typically starts out innocently -- you share things you like about the other, compliment him/her, tell him/her you think s/he's cute, sexy or a catch, comment…
Forgiveness is key
In Elizabeth Gilbert's bestselling book Eat, Pray, Love she describes the year she took off to explore pleasure and devotion. She chose to spend 4 months each in Italy, India…
Rules for Responsible Dating
Wouldn't it be great if there were rules for responsible dating, just as there are rules for responsible driving? I realize not everyone abides to responsible driving guidelines, but at…
“I don’t want to be hurt”
A man I met online shared this in an early email. His ex-wife cheated on him and he hasn't dated since his divorce seven years ago. He said it was…
“All I seem to attract are players”
I discreetly turned to see who made this statement and saw an average-looking, middleaged woman at the table behind me at Starbucks talking to a gal pal about dating. She…
Woo-guru tricks
Readers, you know how low I'll stoop -- I mean, diligent I can be -- when it comes to researching dating relationships. Well, I won't stoop to speed dating, but…
How do you know he’s interested in you?
According to my blog reports, this is a phrase many people search when finding this blog. I only wish I had the answer. It is much easier to identify how…
Are you in agreement that you’re dating each other?
I'd recently read that a man can go out with a woman 2-5 times (or more) before he considers them dating. A woman often leaps to that conclusion on the…
Do his fingers hold clues to his behavior?
Hold your hands in front of you. Notice if your ring finger is longer than your index (pointing) finger. Are they the same size? If so, or if your ring…