First-date red flags that this guy isn’t for you
He's pleasant and cordial. However, there are red flags that make you cautious. Some by themselves are deal breakers (he drinks too much), while others have the cumulative effect of…
Signs that he won’t be asking for a second date
He's pleasant and cordial, not a jerk. But there are signs that there won't be a second date. You'd agreed to meet for a drink. The waiter brings your drinks,…
50 ways to leave your lover? 4 ways NOT to leave your suitor
If you know it isn't a good match, you owe it to him to tell him and then either move on or become friends. But do so graciously, respectfully and…
Hello — goodbye: How to say no thanks after meeting
One of the hardest parts of dating is telling your date that it isn't a match so you don't encourage him to pursue you. It is easiest to do in…
Deciding to see him again or not
Even when there isn't the immediate physical attraction or chemistry, I'll sometimes see a guy again to see if there is any underlying spark that needs a second chance to…
How to say “thanks but no thanks” to online winks, flirts and teases
When someone is not a member of a dating site -- or they are lazy -- they float a trial balloon by clicking on "Wink" (depending on the site, these…