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Review of “Shopping for Mr. Right”
Shopping for Mr. Right...because you don't have time for another Mr. Wrong by Marsha Petrie Sue My friend Marsha Petrie Sue wrote this 125-page book based on her experience --…
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Failed relationships’ blessings
A friend and I were discussing failed relationships. She said, "It depends on your definition of 'failed.' Not all relationships are meant to be long term. Sometimes you are pulled…
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Have you done inner work?
DG reader Tim asked me to address the following, which applies to both genders: I'm 41 and been dating 3 years. Most of the woman I meet assume that they…
Happy Dating Independence Day
I don't think the US government will change the name of this day, but I think we can add to the meaning of Independence Day to extend to a healthy…
Is he assertive enough for you?
In women's dating stories of budding relationships gone awry, there are two common themes: The man was too aggressive too early. The man wasn't assertive enough to say what he…
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Do you put your dates through tests?
Do you make men jump through some hoops when dating you? What do I mean? Some women will only date a man who: makes the first contact. treats her to…
“It feels so comfortable”
A gal pal described her relationship with her new beau with this common phrase. We interpret this as it feels right. If it weren't right, it wouldn't feel comfortable, right?…
Marketing 101 for dating
Today I was strolling down the fresh men aisle at my favorite dating site. No one was enticing enough to pick off the shelf and examine more closely. I wasn't…
Signs of manipulation
DG reader Bigi asked me to address the topic of manipulation. Specifically, how to tell if a man is trying to manipulate you. She says, "I am so gullible and…
Are you set in your ways?
A complaint I hear from midlife daters is that others they date seem set in their ways. This can become evident on the first date or it may take a…
Stood up!
Have you ever been stood up for a date? Whether you have already or regrettably, may be in the future, it's useful to examine your options. Here's how I explored…