“All I seem to attract are players”
I discreetly turned to see who made this statement and saw an average-looking, middleaged woman at the table behind me at Starbucks talking to a gal pal about dating. She…
Guys: Need your help translating
Gentleman readers: On behalf of my women readers, I want to offer my last date as a case study. I need your help translating this message. Yesterday's posting talked about…
Flower power
If you've read Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40 for long, you will know I am an incurable romantic. In fact, my YahooPersonals "love profile" assessment labeled me as "Romantic,"…
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Do you both have the same dating rhythm?
I had an epiphany today. It began with my being flummoxed that I hadn't heard from Dreamboat after our dinner date Wed. where we decided we wanted to see each…
How do you know he’s interested in you?
According to my blog reports, this is a phrase many people search when finding this blog. I only wish I had the answer. It is much easier to identify how…
Is your sense of humor stunting your dating?
In many online profiles, both genders say they want a mate who possess a good sense of humor. But what really does that mean? For many, it means the man…
Do his fingers hold clues to his behavior?
Hold your hands in front of you. Notice if your ring finger is longer than your index (pointing) finger. Are they the same size? If so, or if your ring…
My dating site “friends”
"He looks so familiar," I think, looking at the man in front of me at the coffee counter. "How might I know him?" My internal search engine Googled my mind…
Does he treat you like his ex?
The question is really, "Does the guy you're dating treat you like he treated his ex wife?" Not the way he currently treats his ex wife, as he could treat…
What women need from a man before having sex
Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40 co-authors Gloria MacDonald and Thelma Beam interviewed midlife women and asked how they knew they wanted to have sex with a…
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Dating data a dose of reality
Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40 by Gloria MacDonald and Thelma Beam I found this to be one of the most interesting books on midlife dating I've…