Tag: online dating advice
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My gay “boyfriend”
He sent a beautiful bouquet for my birthday last month, arranging for its arrival the day I returned home from SE Asia. He’s accompanied me to dress-up events, donning his Armani tuxedo with pleasure. He’s the epitome of a gentleman at these events, offering his arm to escort me, taking my coat and fetching it […]
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“Give me a raise and I’ll work harder” applied to dating
This phrase doesn’t work in a job. So why do people think this concept will work in dating? For example, it appears common thinking is:
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What’s your falling-in-love capacity?
The other day I fell in love.
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Forfeiting being right for being loving
I recently spent time with a long-married couple. Like nearly all long-term couples, they’ve developed habits they don’t even know they have. One of this couple’s favorite ones, it seems, is bickering over inconsequential details. For example, “We went shopping last Thursday…” “No, it was Wednesday.” “No, I’m sure it was Thursday.” Etc., etc., etc. […]
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The low-speed chase
You’ve heard of cops engaging in high-speed chases to catch criminals. Then OJ Simpson made the low-speed chase a new buzz word when he was avoiding arrest. The concept can be applied to dating, although it is not to avoid incarceration. It might be to avoid entanglement, but it also might be a sound strategy […]
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Blessings in Brunei
I am in Brunei this week for a client. “Where is Brunei?” you may ask. On the north shore of the island of Borneo. It is beautiful, lush and tropical. Have you ever been to an amazing place and wished you had a sweetie to share it with you? This is one of those places.
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Doing what’s right, not what’s easy
At dinner with 3 other midlife dating women, one asked for input on a situation. She’d gone out with a man three times. While she said she enjoyed his company, she didn’t feel any romantic attraction. He’d asked her to call him when she returned from a recent trip, which she had that day. She […]
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Notice who initiates ongoing communications
Women know that if a man doesn’t ask to spend time with her, he’s not that interested in her. We have learned some men appreciate when a woman suggests a first date, but what about other communication?
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First date — with two chaperones!
When he said he wanted to fly in to meet me, we didn’t intend for it to be a chaperoned event. But it ended up being one — with two escorts!
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What shape do men find attractive?
Of course, each man has his own “type.” But the research shared in the Discovery Channel program, “The Science of Sex Appeal” gives us some generalizations.
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Feeling powerless in dating
A lot of people are feeling powerless lately — about their job security, their financial future, their retirement. Those of us who are dating are used to feeling powerless.