Sharing your dating disclaimer
My friend George, a long-time dater and avowed bachelor until he met his soulmate 18 months ago, had a printed dating disclaimer. He says he made women read it before…
Trust your instincts
Have you ever found yourself in a situation because you didn't follow your instincts? Your gut is saying "Danger Will Robinson" but you ignore the flashing red lights. I never…
“You are just too much work”
Sometimes a guy says something that stings but it shifts your perspective so it ends up for the better. We'd been seeing each other a few weeks. I enjoyed his…
“POP!: Stand Out in Any Crowd” makes you outstanding in the dating scene
My friend, bestselling author Sam Horn, has a new book out, POP!: Stand Out in Any Crowd. At first glance, you'd think POP! is strictly a business book and says…
Clues a guy is just looking for a booty call
I have a new friend, the writer of "Male Call," a syndicated newspaper columnist on "Advice From a Guy." I asked him a question I thought might interest you. We…
Yummy is as yummy does
When my friends ask if a particular man I'm seeing is handsome, I commonly respond, "If I saw him from across the room, I wouldn't say 'Who's that yummy guy?'…
Treasure found
One of the joys I've experienced with online dating is discovering amazing men. I wrote about this in "Dating as networking." A year ago, I received a well-written email from…
A man to go with my wardrobe
Our lifestyle is often reflected by the clothing we're most comfortable in, which often represents the activities we enjoy. Most of us have a range of clothing from sweats to…
Multi-dating pros and cons
When I've shared with single, dating guy pals that I'm multi-dating they say that there is a double standard. If a guy talked about having dates with multiple women, he'd…
Men are like shoes
Soon after I began dating, I was hunting for date shoes in my favorite shoe store, DSW (Discount Shoe Warehouse). It is a cavernous store carrying thousands of varieties. One…
He’s baaaaack!
This phrase may conjure up images of Arnold Schwarzenegger ("The Governator") in "The Terminator 2." The man I'm referring to has a few of Arnold's characteristics -- an easy smile,…