Are you sending off “ready” vibes?
Talking to a single friend about her dating life, she said, "I'm really not ready, but I do have a profile posted." "Why do you have a profile posted if…
The zest test
An attractive, successful, intelligent, sexy 48-year-old man told me on our first date that he'd only had two other dates in the last 3.5 years. I asked why. "I'm not…
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Who would fall for this?
His French accent was fetching. He laughed immediately which was disarming. We chatted on the phone about life for 20 minutes. He'd said in his dating site profile that he…
Bank of Grace account overdrawn
You met a guy and you seemed to hit it off really well. You saw him a few times. Lots of flirting, which led to hand holding and even kissing.…
Are you holding on when you should let go?
Have you been in (or perhaps are in) a relationship that the other person isn't as into? It doesn't have to be a committed relationship, as this can happen even…
Dating’s emotional roller coaster
Your experience dating your current guy swings from elation to disappointment, glee to frustration, fun to hassle. But the good far outweighs the bad, so you stick with it. When…
Is he collecting data on how to make you happy?
I briefly dated a man who interspersed into our conversations a myriad of questions about my preferences. He asked about my favorite flower, gemstone, color, fabric, musical artist, book genre,…
Posted inDating after 40 From fear to frolic: sex
Sexual desire is alive and well in daters over 50
Alert reader Paulette sent a link to this article, "Sex, Lust And Passion Top Baby Boomer Love Expectations" for us to mull over. According to a study conducted by Wanobe.com,…
Scantily clothed pictures
A gal pal new to online dating asked me: "What does it mean when a man offers to send you scantily clad pictures, and you haven't even talked to him…
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Marriage as a business deal?
I received an email about a presumably true Craigslist personals ad by a 25-year-old attractive ("stunningly beautiful") NYC woman wanting advice on how to meet and marry a man who…
The faux vacation fling
You had an instant, magical, mutual connection. On the first date you both expressed how attracted you were to the other, and how much you enjoyed your time together. He…