Do his fingers hold clues to his behavior?
Hold your hands in front of you. Notice if your ring finger is longer than your index (pointing) finger. Are they the same size? If so, or if your ring…
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Review of “Flings, Frolics And Forever Afters”
Flings, Frolics And Forever Afters: A Single Woman's Guide to Romance After Fifty by Katherine Chaddock and Emilie Chaddock Egan These sisters/coauthors have written an easy-to-read work designed to help…
My dating site “friends”
"He looks so familiar," I think, looking at the man in front of me at the coffee counter. "How might I know him?" My internal search engine Googled my mind…
Using Angel Cards in dating
At the risk of your thinking I'm too woo-woo (I am woo-woo, but balance it with pragmatism), I want to suggest you consider using Angel Cards as part of your…
Tips for men
In his column last week, my friend who writes "Male Call" for the San José Mercury News gave practical tips on how men can be more appealing to women. At…
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Book of women’s fantasy men doing chores
Porn for Women is a book designed to redefine what women think of as porn. It is a fun photo book featuring hunky men doing what many women dream about…
Does he treat you like his ex?
The question is really, "Does the guy you're dating treat you like he treated his ex wife?" Not the way he currently treats his ex wife, as he could treat…
The dating profile fudge factor
I may have led you astray. In "You are (probably) more attractive than you think you are!," I based my comments on the observation that most midlife women I know…
What women need from a man before having sex
Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40 co-authors Gloria MacDonald and Thelma Beam interviewed midlife women and asked how they knew they wanted to have sex with a…
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Dating data a dose of reality
Laws of the Jungle: Dating for Women Over 40 by Gloria MacDonald and Thelma Beam I found this to be one of the most interesting books on midlife dating I've…
The sting of rejection
Unless you have really thick skin, nearly all rejection has a little sting. Even from someone you aren't really interested in! If you email a guy and he responds, even…