What is sexy?
"Sex appeal is 50% what you've got and 50% what people think you've got." —Sophia Loren In my online profile, I used to describe myself as sexy. I took it…
Getting naked with him the first time
"According to a new survey, women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are…
Safe online dating
A gal pal said she was afraid to date online because of safety issues. It's true that online you don't know much about the guy. But that is true if…
Posted inDating after 40
Don’t initiate
Chatting with a friend yesterday, he observed that dating for woman over 40 was different than for women under 40 because of the mixed expectations. Many mid-life women have had…
Dating as networking
I've been pleased to meet some wonderful men in my dating adventures. Sometimes I've been able to connect them to others in my life. A year ago I had one…
Do you have the right datewear?
Do you have the right clothes to wear on dates -- datewear? I think it's especially important to have the right kind of attire for the first meeting. You know…
They come, they go
When a friend asks about a potential suitor I've talked about but is no longer around, they seem surprised when I say "He's gone. They come, they go." This is…
Flirt your heart out
"Flirt — a girl whose favorite man is the next one." —Anonymous After spending the day together shopping and dining, a friend told me she marveled at my ability to…
In search of the elusive good kisser
"A man's kiss is his signature. " —Mae West I've been surprised by the lack of good kissers in my dating adventures. Granted, sometimes it takes a while…
Paris — right invitation, wrong guy
I've been invited to Paris by two guys. In fact, one guy asked me twice, 15 months apart, and I wasn't even dating him the second time. And I had…
What is the definition of a date?
I went to the movie yesterday with a guy I'd had a lunch date with a year ago. When I told a friend about this, I said, "I don't know…