“I don’t want a whipped boyfriend”
These words were uttered by my neighbor's 16-year-old daughter as we were discussing dating. The three of us were sharing the nice things men we dated had done for us…
Virtually falling for a guy
I mean "virtually" two ways: As the dictionary defines it: "nearly, almost" as in not really; and Via the computer and/or phone; not face to face. My neighbor and I…
What makes you feel sexy?
In "What is sexy?" I asked you to explore what you think is sexy in a man. Now I'd like you to identify what makes you feel sexy. For some…
Falling in …????
You've begun to date a guy you like. Each encounter makes you like him more. He's funny, thoughtful, smart, romantic. He cares about making you happy. He's not self-absorbed. He…
Help your date notice his riches
Benjamin Disraeli said: "The greatest good you can do for another is not just to share your riches, but to reveal to him his own." In the context of dating…
What’s your definition of a PDA?
No, I'm not talking about a Personal Digital Assistant, like a Blackberry or Palm. I'm referring to Public Displays of Affection. In online profiles people often say they are comfortable…
Beyond getting lucky: Boomer dating tips that will make even leprechauns leap for love
So you've been unlucky in love. You think maybe this St. Patrick's Day the luck of the Irish will rub off on you. But you're not really interested in getting…
Do you like who you’re being when with your date?
People often use the phrase, "He made me feel (bad, stupid, ugly, fat, angry, good, sexy, pretty)." The truth is, no one makes you feel anything. You choose to feel…
What’s your communication compatibility?
For 2.5 days I visited a relative I love dearly. However, it drove me crazy that she incessantly second guessed what I was doing. When I was packing, she suggested…
What melts your heart?
We all dream of someone who melts our heart. And when he does or says those liquefying actions or words, his flaws seem to dim. We are drawn to him…
How to introduce your midlife flame to colleagues?
My sweetie and I were talking about a function we will be attending with his professional colleagues. He asked, "How shall I introduce you to my associates and co-workers? What…