Are you arguing your limitations?
Midlife women sometimes passionately, convincingly, compellingly tell me why no man would be interested in dating them. "Men aren't interested in a woman like me who has wrinkles, bags, extra…
What makes you feel sexy?
In "What is sexy?" I asked you to explore what you think is sexy in a man. Now I'd like you to identify what makes you feel sexy. For some…
Help your date notice his riches
Benjamin Disraeli said: "The greatest good you can do for another is not just to share your riches, but to reveal to him his own." In the context of dating…
When midlife dating is like high school
Perhaps you haven't dated in a while and now you're beginning to go out. You meet a guy who seems great and he seems to like you too. You have…
Are parts of you excellent?
Ashleigh Brilliant writes clever sayings that make you laugh or think. Part of his, well, brilliance is that the sayings are limited to a maximum of 17 words. He is…
Are you dating the same guy in different bodies?
You may be familiar with the poem "There's a Hole in My Sidewalk: Autobiography in Five Short Chapters" by Portia Nelson (pictured at right). In the poem, Ms. Nelson concisely illustrates how…
Do your friends birddog for you?
By "birddog" I am not referring to Labrador Retrievers, English Pointers, or German Shorthaired Pointers. However, I am referring to their ability to find and point out what you are…
Makeover miracle worker
Sometimes in dating we begin to doubt our attractiveness, especially if we have a series of first dates and no second ones, or it seems difficult to get even a…
The date relationship test
I've discovered a key relationship test. This one is guaranteed to tell you what you need to know about your guy, so I recommend using this test early in the…
Be willing to retry activities you think you don’t like
Part of the fun of dating is trying new things that your date suggests. If you have the attitude of "I don't like that" even though you haven't tried it…
Beyond getting lucky: Boomer dating tips that will make even leprechauns leap for love
So you've been unlucky in love. You think maybe this St. Patrick's Day the luck of the Irish will rub off on you. But you're not really interested in getting…